Produced
By: Alexander Institute
Run Time: Approx. 60 mins.
Reviewed By: Katie
I finally got the DVD player hooked up in
my bedroom - something that I highly suggest
couples doing - and finally got some alone
time to watch my assigned DVDs. Today’s
assignment was Ultimate Massage, The Art of
Sexual Touch. This is one of the Loving Sex
instructional videos, and since I had read
Jenne’s review of Lover's Massage I was
curious how this video was different from
the one she watched.
The
is a 60 minute video which opens with a scene
where a wife meets her husband at the door,
telling him she has a special Christmas present
for him. They then rush from the door to the
bedroom and pop in the tape. The opening was
a bit abrupt, but I suppose they had to get
to watching the video somehow. Once in the
bedroom with the tape running, we are allowed
to see the video they are watching with begins
with an introduction by Dr. Bernie Zilbergeld,
the author of the famous best seller MALE
SEXUALITY. There was one statement he made
that I thought captured the essence of this
video. “Erotic massage is a way to wake
up the sexual sensual self. Sensual massage
is not foreplay. The goal is not intercourse.
The goal is not even orgasm. If you happen
to have intercourse before, during, or after
your sensual massage, that’s fine. But
that’s not really the goal. The goal
is simply to experienced pleasure.”
The
main difference between the Ultimate Massage
video and the Lover’s Massage video is
that I believe the Ultimate Massage video
is more intimate. While the Lover’s Massage
focuses on whole body massage, the Ultimate
Massage video centers primarily on genital
massage. The video is broken down into five
parts: erotic frontal massage, Male genital
massage, female genital massage, practice
erotic frontal massage, and practice genital
massage.
The
first scene is the woman massaging the man.
While instructions are given in the background,
the woman follows through with the actions.
It’s quite sexy to watch how she strokes
and touches his body, including the different
things she does to his penis. Now in all honesty,
if I had read the instruction in a book without
seeing the video, I might have thought some
of the suggestions could cause discomfort
- The Serpent, for example (you’ll have
to watch the video to find out what it is).
But when the instructions are given and I
saw her carry them out, it made a connection
in my brain that said, “Okay, that’s
what they mean.” Then the video changes
and we see the man carry out much of the same
things that were done to the woman, along
with explicit direction on vaginal massage
and instructions on finding her g-spot - which
I felt would be very helpful to some viewers.
After
he has finished, our couple watching the video
turns it off and they proceed to try out all
the things they learned. It’s not exactly
the same, but it helps to reinforce all the
different moves, and it shows you a couple
of different ways to change the routine without
affecting the eventual outcome - which is
to please your lover. I do admit that I love
the fact that these people appear to be really
enjoying themselves. When he’s giving
her the g-spot massage you see her body twitch
and jump, you hear her moans, just like it
happens in real life. And when she is giving
him the penis massage you actually see him
ejaculate - not the cheesy sort of porn money
shot, but a tasteful depiction of a man enjoying
himself to orgasm.
What’s
it all add up to?
I think this is a great video for couples
wanting to learn how to better explore their
lover’s bodies and for those who have
a goal to just bring pleasure to their partners.
This is not the kind of video that centers
on ‘getting your own.’ This is about
using your senses, especially touch to tease
and arouse your partner. I would highly recommend
it.
You
can purchase this video by either clicking
on the image above or HERE
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